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How to get anything over $750 for free on eBay (and why you shouldn’t)

I was recently scammed on eBay when I sold some car parts and the buyer claimed he didn’t get it despite the package being marked as “Delivered” by FedEx.

The scam is super easy, and anyone can do it, so I’m sharing it here to bring greater awareness to this problem and hope that someone at eBay reads this and does something about it…but even if they don’t, I hope that even just one eBay seller sees this and that I can prevent them from having the same thing happen to them.

Before I tell you how the scam works, and how you can avoid it (or take advantage of it), let me get this out of the way: Noel Silva of 418 Main Street, Fairhaven, MA 02719 is a scammer and thief. Do not trust him, do not hire him, do not date him, don’t let him around your kids, and definitely do not do business with him. His phone number is 508-717-7232.

How the scam works (aka how to get things for free on eBay as long as they cost over $750*)

The scam is quite simple – buy anything you want as long as it cost over $750 (including shipping).

If the seller does NOT require signature confirmation, then you can pretend you never received it…simply wait until after you get it, then file a Dispute claiming you didn’t get it, and eBay will refund the full amount (including shipping) back to you, and you get to keep the item.

It doesn’t matter if the item is marked as “Delivered” by the shipping company, or if the seller is a power seller or has a great track record – eBay always sides with the Buyer as long as it’s over $750 unless there is a signature confirmation from the shipping company to prove you got it.

If they did require a signature, you’re stuck with the item – but most sellers do not do this as it something that eBay themselves doesn’t make clear and buries deep into their Help Portal that you’re unlikely to read or see until it’s too late…even if you buy the shipping label through eBay, which I’d imagine most sellers do, there isn’t anywhere that suggests let alone requires Signature Confirmation, so the seller would need to go out of their way to check the box for Signature Confirmation because they were aware of the scam or are otherwise very thorough people. I would imagine some of the Power Sellers on eBay know about this rule after they likely got stung by this too, so if you really want to do this, you’re best off looking for sellers who don’t do a ton of volume and you should probably only do this if you actually want the item in case they do require signature and you’re out of luck on getting a refund.

What’s crazy is that it doesn’t matter how many times the seller calls customer service, how good their seller rating is, or even if FedEx says the item was delivered and you have receipts proving you dropped it off (all of which I did), eBay will always side with the Buyer. This seems like an insane loophole, yet it remains wide open.

What really sucks for the seller is that that refund comes directly from the Seller’s pocket – including shipping, which the seller already paid to FedEx (or UPS/USPS)…eBay also keeps their fees, so the Seller gets extra screwed in the process.

For me selling this $1,000 part resulted in the following loss:

  • -$1,000 car part value (I’d argue it was worth more, but that’s what it went for)
  • -$122.75 in shipping refund to the buyer (what he paid for shipping)
  • -$74.88 in actual FedEx label costs (purchased through eBay)
  • -$27.47 in packaging costs (I had FedEx do this as I wanted to make sure it arrived safely)
  • -$148.75 in eBay fees that they collected (and kept!)

TOTAL LOSS: $1,373.85

Now you’re probably asking why I didn’t insure the package – of course I did. I opened a claim with FedEx seeing if they’d step in and help…but FedEx shows the package as delivered, so they denied the claim since it isn’t their fault that eBay decided it wasn’t delivered…and neither the buyer nor eBay has any proof it wasn’t delivered. In fact, the only actual proof in this case shows that the package was delivered based on the tracking number, along with receipts I have to prove exactly when I dropped it off.

For the record, here is the link to the original listing:

And here is proof it was shipped & delivered:

How to prevent yourself from getting scammed on eBay as a seller

The biggest thing you can do is to require signature confirmation on everything you ship. This is a huge pain in the butt for the buyer, as it requires them to be home to accept the package, but because eBay’s policy is so firm, it’s the only prudent course of action.

I would also be suspicious of buyers like Noel Silva aka nocplaya2012 on eBay who hadn’t bought anything for a while, as they could be scammers and/or not legitimate users of the site.

That all being said, the best thing you can do is to not use eBay.

The eBay “Money Back Guarantee” sounds nice from a marketing perspective, but what they really mean is “if there are any problems, we will take the money back from the seller and give it back to the buyer.”

Even worse, they’ll keep their fees, which are fairly significant (almost 20%) if you don’t proactively refund the buyer when they ask, even if you did in fact ship the item and it was marked as delivered by the shipping company.

If you think that you’ll be able to get a different outcome because of your persuasive skills, or excellent Sellers History, think again. I am an eBay affiliate, I’ve been paid by eBay as an influencer to create “Pro-eBay” content, and I have this blog – all of which I told multiple customer service representatives about (as much as I hate playing that card). I also let them know our conversations would be published here, and in total I sent about 40 different emails and placed at least 5 phone calls trying to escalate this. I even filed two different appeals of their original decision – all to no avail. I don’t care if you were the founder of eBay yourself, the offshore customer service team has no ability, authority, nor interest in making an exception to their rules – if you didn’t have signature confirmation, the buyer gets a full refund and gets to keep the part.

Simply put, eBay is not a safe place to buy or sell items online – consider local transactions (OfferUp, Craigslist) or speciality websites rather than a faceless bureaucracy like eBay that doesn’t have any real capacity to investigate and settle disputes fairly.

Why you shouldn’t do this (even thought it’s so easy)

For starters, it royally screws over the Seller – if eBay were the ones actually stepping in and paying out of their pocket like an insurance policy, then it’d be a mostly victimless crime has a market cap of $47,000,000,000 (that’s billion!) and so paying the occasional claim would be a rounding error in their balance sheet…but that’s not what eBay does, they debit the amount straight out of the Seller’s checking account.

Not only is the Seller out the actual part (which had value), they end up eating the shipping costs and eBay fees too. In extreme cases, the refund might be enough to overdraft their checking account, or cause them to not be able to pay bills. I’m thankful and fortunate that this amount was not a major financial hardship for me, but I’d imagine for some sellers, it very much could be.

If you don’t care about the Seller, then consider not doing this because it will make you a better person. You may or may not believe in karma, sin, shame, or some other mechanism of determining right vs wrong, but doing this is objectively wrong.

Will I shut down my eBay account?

Initially my answer was yes – I shut down my account after my second appeal was denied. I was so mad and frusterated that I couldn’t imagine a world in which I’d ever want to use eBay again.

As time went on, I realized that I didn’t want to lose my great feedback score (oddly enough this dispute, even though ruled against me, didn’t hurt my seller feedback whatsoever) should I want to buy something in the future. eBay has a ton of used car parts that are very difficult if not impossible to find elsewhere.

As such, I’ll probably never sell on the platform again, but I may consider buying things. If I do, it will only be as a last resort, and I’d be willing to pay more money for the same item if it can be purchased outside of the eBay ecosystem…but if there is truly no way around it, I’ll reluctantly use eBay again…as much as I’d love to boycott them, the truth is that the boycott would hurt me far more than them, as they’re too big to ever notice my business being gone.

I do hope that one day eBay changes their policy, or makes it more clear to seller that signature confirmation is required. It would be really simple to do for those who purchase their shipping labels through eBay (as I did) by actually making this a required field in order to purchase the label – I can’t think of a reason why anyone wouldn’t opt for this, and it would cut down on fraud from both buyers and sellers drastically.

In the meantime, shame on you eBay, and shame on you Noel Silva.

Nick Roshon

Nick has been an Audi owner and fanatic for the last 10 years, and started Nick's Car Blog in 2009 to share DIYs and pictures of his A4. Currently he drives a 2012 Audi TT-RS, and has previously owned a B7 S4, B7 A4, and an 82 Audi Coupe (GT) LeMons race car. In his day job, Nick is a digital marketer and lives in San Diego, CA, USA.


  1. thanks such, amazing how some people can be so good and some people can be trash. On a different note Nick do you have post that you can point me towards on what to look out for when purchasing a RS4? Im looking for a car. I have a 2002 Audi A4 366,000 miles ( I bought it new) that I’m keeping but I’m am looking for another vehicle. I’m deciding between a RS4 (I think the new RS3 is a little small for me) or possibly the new Nissan 400Z although that is small as well. I’m partial to Audis and if I go with the RS4 just want to make sure I look out for the right things before buying. Thanks,

  2. haha yep that’s the one. The RS4 is such a special car. I miss mine even though the R8 is amazing. The RS4 just has tons of character and personality in a way that most cars (new or old) simply don’t.

  3. Hey, Randomly found your blog entry. I guess google likes you. So this doesn’t surprise me at all and I’m sorry you got scammed but the issue is deeper then this. You see the credit card company will side with the buyer in this case so ebay would rather screw you then get screwed by the card issuing bank. Further, even if you did get a signature, chances are the credit card company would still side with the buyer. Its almost impossible to combat a charge back especially for a small business or individual. That is the way of the “card not present” system and it sux for seller on and off ebay. You basically take payment at your own risk.
    I hope that some day sensors will be so small and cheap that a small GPS sensor will be put into larger value packages that can do a better job of rooting out this type of fraud.

    Live and learn. Cheers

  4. Hi Nick, I agree with you in everything you said and am sorry to hear of your experience. I can say as an occasional seller (mostly a buyer) it is not favorable to sellers at all. I too avoid eBay if at all possible for this an other reasons. Even selling prices have to be verified as they are not the “deals” they used to be. Thanks for the post and the great information. Regards, Marc

  5. Same thing happened, bastard Agents sided against me. Two buyers sent messages during the and after the sale which showed they were lying about the items condition. I contacted ebay through Facebook. They overturned both cases and ruled in my favor. Sounds funny “ruled” doesn’t it? Well, I got the money back they took out to pay those scumbags. If your case isn’t too old, try it you never know.

  6. Sorry this happened to you. The buyer used you for sure and was hoping you were not up to date on eBay policies as all sellers should be. I sell a lot on eBay and the threshold years ago for a signature confirmation requirement was $250 ….now it is $750. A hard lesson learned! All sellers should know the policies of the platform they sell on. When I print a label on ebay and the purchase is over $750 I am warned at least three times during the label checkout to buy Signature confirmation. Anyway…..their is another loophole for purchases under $750 that is unfair to the buyer. If the delivery service delivers to the wrong house…and they do at times!….the buyer cannot file a no receipt claim because tracking shows delivered. The seller is not at fault as it is a delivery hiccup but The buyer is out the money and the item with no help from ebay. Summary….ebay needs to rework their policies!

  7. I’m sorry but eBay’s policy is if you’re selling an item over $750 you must have signature confirmation. Instead you make a blog unintentionally encouraging other scammers they can do what your scammer did to you, and revealed his information (which is probably throwaway information). How are you any better than this scammer if you don’t read eBay’s policies? Use common sense? ADD DIRECT SIGNATURE (carriers check ID) to literally anything you can’t afford to lose, whether it be a legit lost and damage claim or a scam? Let’s not just do it for $750+ but over $100 too. This ain’t it, chief.

    You’re a big baby and you’re not cut out for the online business. Stick to local sales and cash until you learn to sell online. And read eBay’s policies.

    And by the way, porch pirates are a thing.

    You could’ve won this case for a measly $2.90 for signature confirmation. But no, you whine. This is the cost of doing business. Insure your shit, add signature.

  8. Ebay has gotten better on this though… it used to be that you had to check the signature box now ( and this only applies if you buy label on ebay) they will check the signature box for you and has a slight warning about why you need signature… though you can still unchecked it… it’s much better than it used to be…

    Another thing that changed is it used to be the item had to be 750 and over now its just the order total has to be 750 and over…. which is why I sig everything over 600

  9. Let’s be clear about a few things here:
    1) I’m not unintentionally encouraging other scammers – I’m very clear and intentional to expose this loophole. My hope is if enough people get scammed, eBay will do something.
    2) eBay’s policies are incredibly long and complex, and I doubt anyone that reads it
    3) If you want to talk about an easy way to fix the problem, eBay could just default the box that requires signature confirmation when you’re purchasing the shipping THROUGH EBAY…and perhaps a warning if you de-select it. Instead, they don’t do anything to educate the sellers on their policies and make it an opt-in rather than opt-out to comply with their policies. You must not have very much education on UI/UX best practices or human behavior in general, but what you choose as the default option is very powerful, and eBay intentionally defaults to not requiring signature confirmation and effectively sets a trap for sellers to fall into.
    4) I would have happily paid the $2.90 signature confirmation had I known about this policy. But it’s buried into pages deep into an obscure part of the website.

  10. Thanks for sharing your experience Nick. I’ve heard about sellers being screwed on ebay for the past decade and it seems nothing has been done to improve the situation. I hope ebay motors doesn’t work in the same way or else folks would be walking away with free vehicles left and right. The $750 threshold is extremely low, especially within the automotive parts market.

  11. I agree with what “Really” says. I sell a lot on ebay. Whenever I sell something over $750 on ebay, it always gives me a notice stating that signatures are required and it’ll add it for me. But on expensive items, I’ll add insurance, and when it’s over a certain amount, a direct signature is included with the cost of insurance, instead of paying double. I prefer FedEx, because UPS is known to do a signature release on items and drop it at your porch/gate/garage/curb/etc. I’ve had people take items that UPS has just dumped before. FedEx is more diligent, especially FedEx Express. As for claiming ebay has policies buried in their website, it’s ultimately up to you to read it. It’s just like the TOS when you use software or rent a car. You might bitch about how some clause was buried deep into a contract’s text, but if you sign your life away and something happens that’s outlined in that text, the only one to blame is yourself.

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